Comments on: Imagine http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/ and so it shall be written.. and so it shall be done... Fri, 21 Nov 2008 10:01:19 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: mansoor http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1355 mansoor Thu, 01 Feb 2007 13:13:55 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1355 dee: "you fall in love once and then after that you will try to replace that love." very thought provoking... but quite accurate. I've seen (and done) this on quite a few occasions.. comparing someone with an ex.... dee: “you fall in love once and then after that you will try to replace that love.” very thought provoking… but quite accurate. I’ve seen (and done) this on quite a few occasions.. comparing someone with an ex….

]]> By: Dee http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1352 Dee Thu, 01 Feb 2007 05:30:46 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1352 Hmm the broken engagment(s) and broken hearts.I guess most of us can claim to have atleast one.Logic dictates, MOVE ON!!.Heart says ,NOt gona do that. I read somewhere or heard that you fall in love once and then after that you will try to replace that love.You are so young so brace yourself and try not to fall in love with the ghost of your EX again.Unfortunately, thats very likely to happen. So Good luck. Dee Hmm the broken engagment(s) and broken hearts.I guess most of us can claim to have atleast one.Logic dictates, MOVE ON!!.Heart says ,NOt gona do that.
I read somewhere or heard that you fall in love once and then after that you will try to replace that love.You are so young so brace yourself and try not to fall in love with the ghost of your EX again.Unfortunately, thats very likely to happen.
So Good luck.
Dee

]]> By: mansoor http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1339 mansoor Wed, 31 Jan 2007 05:27:40 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1339 adnan: you talk from experience, we talk from emotion, eventually... we will turn into you, and others will take our place. On a serious note though.. a couple of points i agree with you now wholeheartedly (from experience maybe?) are "my ideal is my own mother" and "a sincere partner is much helpful than just an emotional loving partner" and "I know my parents could do this job much better than me" The cycle i talked about in the beginning is starting to complete. adnan: you talk from experience, we talk from emotion, eventually… we will turn into you, and others will take our place.

On a serious note though.. a couple of points i agree with you now wholeheartedly (from experience maybe?) are “my ideal is my own mother” and “a sincere partner is much helpful than just an emotional loving partner” and “I know my parents could do this job much better than me”

The cycle i talked about in the beginning is starting to complete.

]]> By: Adnan Siddiqi http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1335 Adnan Siddiqi Tue, 30 Jan 2007 19:29:05 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1335 mansoor, I don't know what you meant by "failed" engagment. Let me clear further that it was a combined decision, yes she did react initially and it's quite natural but later she understood. The weird thing is that I didn't feel much as I was expecting because I was 2000% willing to marry that lady[tho it was an arranged stuff] but maybe I had learnt a lesson from past or I had completed my quota of suffering 12 years back, whatever the reason is, I am thankful of Allah that He did help me on right timing and I didn't feel it for long because religion did play a vital role to come out of illusion. Today I don't even miss my ex-fiance nor the lady which I could say my "first love". The real life doesn't allow you to wander and you are asked to focus on things which are necessary for your people rather for your own and offcourse thinking of a girl is not my priority anymore as Pooh said that a sincere partner is much helpful than just an emotional "loving partner" and I know my parents could do this job much better than me. Infact my ideal is my own mother now because the way she takes care of my dad and us is imaginary. Offcourse I wouldn't like to repeat the mistakes which are done by my dad and my mother doesn't even complain. I often read blogs by young guys and girls who write/share/ day-to-day commentary about the thnigs they felt for their loveones and it gives me a laugh but then i can't blame them as I was also like them when I was a young guy. :-) mansoor, I don’t know what you meant by “failed” engagment. Let me clear further that it was a combined decision, yes she did react initially and it’s quite natural but later she understood. The weird thing is that I didn’t feel much as I was expecting because I was 2000% willing to marry that lady[tho it was an arranged stuff] but maybe I had learnt a lesson from past or I had completed my quota of suffering 12 years back, whatever the reason is, I am thankful of Allah that He did help me on right timing and I didn’t feel it for long because religion did play a vital role to come out of illusion.

Today I don’t even miss my ex-fiance nor the lady which I could say my “first love”. The real life doesn’t allow you to wander and you are asked to focus on things which are necessary for your people rather for your own and offcourse thinking of a girl is not my priority anymore as Pooh said that a sincere partner is much helpful than just an emotional “loving partner” and I know my parents could do this job much better than me. Infact my ideal is my own mother now because the way she takes care of my dad and us is imaginary. Offcourse I wouldn’t like to repeat the mistakes which are done by my dad and my mother doesn’t even complain.

I often read blogs by young guys and girls who write/share/ day-to-day commentary about the thnigs they felt for their loveones and it gives me a laugh but then i can’t blame them as I was also like them when I was a young guy. :-)

]]> By: mansoor http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1331 mansoor Tue, 30 Jan 2007 12:12:27 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1331 iced: moving on..... its tuff, but has to be done :( iced2: yes! i thought its time i take on a new begining :) quite catching too isn't it ;) pph: carlton does... but im not in the habit of paying yaar.. atleast not yet.. gotta keep some sanity :P and well, since u've already lost... be careful next time :P thats all i can say.. again, i would've gladly paid :) but then, im a hopeless romantic adnan: welcome to the wonderful world of failed engagements :p i'll just add you to the list of people i know with broken off engagements.... unaiza: thanks budd! pph: the shair is good..... thanks for sharing man! iced: moving on….. its tuff, but has to be done :(

iced2: yes! i thought its time i take on a new begining :) quite catching too isn’t it ;)

pph: carlton does… but im not in the habit of paying yaar.. atleast not yet.. gotta keep some sanity :P and well, since u’ve already lost… be careful next time :P thats all i can say.. again, i would’ve gladly paid :) but then, im a hopeless romantic

adnan: welcome to the wonderful world of failed engagements :p i’ll just add you to the list of people i know with broken off engagements….

unaiza: thanks budd!

pph: the shair is good….. thanks for sharing man!

]]> By: Poo Poo Head http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1324 Poo Poo Head Mon, 29 Jan 2007 19:47:33 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1324 Mocha, how old are you ?? Ask any one who has been married would say that this love thing is a useless junk. Waste of time/energy/money. When you live with some one, you would end up in loving him. You need sincere people around you more than people who could love you. Any how I know I am bitter due to my divorce and besides I do not see any nice gals around me who could change my perception again. Love is good but when it is gone I believe, you should move on and try to find new love. That's simple. You could not measure love so how could you say that your second love would not be as good as first. Point is the human nature is very complex. You would always miss the ones you do not have. You would always miss the past time even it was not good. Noor Jehan ki badi achi ghazal hay "Jo na milsaka wohi aaj tak mujhay yad hay" . Live and learn my young friends. Mocha, how old are you ?? Ask any one who has been married would say that this love thing is a useless junk. Waste of time/energy/money. When you live with some one, you would end up in loving him. You need sincere people around you more than people who could love you.

Any how I know I am bitter due to my divorce and besides I do not see any nice gals around me who could change my perception again. Love is good but when it is gone I believe, you should move on and try to find new love. That’s simple. You could not measure love so how could you say that your second love would not be as good as first. Point is the human nature is very complex. You would always miss the ones you do not have. You would always miss the past time even it was not good.

Noor Jehan ki badi achi ghazal hay “Jo na milsaka wohi aaj tak mujhay yad hay” .

Live and learn my young friends.

]]> By: unaiza nasim http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1323 unaiza nasim Mon, 29 Jan 2007 19:03:14 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1323 budz, u been a wonderful man, truly amazing having known u so closely and m sure there wud b this just perfect lady somwhere waiting to be taken away by u.... dude u trust me na??? i know it will happen, so forget the rest. budz, u been a wonderful man, truly amazing having known u so closely and m sure there wud b this just perfect lady somwhere waiting to be taken away by u….
dude u trust me na??? i know it will happen, so forget the rest.

]]> By: Adnan Siddiqi http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1321 Adnan Siddiqi Mon, 29 Jan 2007 18:31:12 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1321 well the question is that whether that was a "love" or just infatuation? It's not that easy to make difference between two. I remmeber I "fell in love" when I was 15 and she was 14 or something and I waited for her for 9 long years that is I wasted my entire university life for her and didn't see here and there. Att aht time I used to believe that I loved her[Infact i still feel so even I had gotten engaged with someone] but now I feel that I was being silly that I waited for someone who was not even told about my feelings. I couldn't because you shouldn't expect too much from a 15 years old kid. Now when I am going to be a 30 years old and has lost my fiance two years back, I feel comfortable as I have no regret about my past decisions because those decisions were taken on the basis of certain parameters rather emotional one. Yes love is replaceable and one could love with more than one person. These are just filmy stuff that "love happens once" etc. When you grow up and face real life then you realize that things are not so filmy as we imagine. Though I waited for someone for nine years ,got engaged with somenoe else but I am sill sure that I would be able to give 100% love and care to my future wife without disturbing her or our future by brining my past in the middle. well the question is that whether that was a “love” or just infatuation? It’s not that easy to make difference between two. I remmeber I “fell in love” when I was 15 and she was 14 or something and I waited for her for 9 long years that is I wasted my entire university life for her and didn’t see here and there. Att aht time I used to believe that I loved her[Infact i still feel so even I had gotten engaged with someone] but now I feel that I was being silly that I waited for someone who was not even told about my feelings. I couldn’t because you shouldn’t expect too much from a 15 years old kid. Now when I am going to be a 30 years old and has lost my fiance two years back, I feel comfortable as I have no regret about my past decisions because those decisions were taken on the basis of certain parameters rather emotional one. Yes love is replaceable and one could love with more than one person. These are just filmy stuff that “love happens once” etc. When you grow up and face real life then you realize that things are not so filmy as we imagine. Though I waited for someone for nine years ,got engaged with somenoe else but I am sill sure that I would be able to give 100% love and care to my future wife without disturbing her or our future by brining my past in the middle.

]]> By: icedmocha http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1319 icedmocha Mon, 29 Jan 2007 18:11:56 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1319 @ poo poo head~ agreed with u on KMB the other day..magar this view you hold is your own view..uff nd personally its so wrong. how can u replace a love? y wud sum1 give u 50 lacs?? u don't 'measure' money against 'love' unless ur cold and heartless. now i hope sum1 else reads this and comments bak! @ poo poo head~ agreed with u on KMB the other day..magar this view you hold is your own view..uff nd personally its so wrong. how can u replace a love? y wud sum1 give u 50 lacs?? u don’t ‘measure’ money against ‘love’ unless ur cold and heartless. now i hope sum1 else reads this and comments bak!

]]> By: Poo Poo head http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1307 Poo Poo head Sat, 27 Jan 2007 22:13:51 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/2007/01/25/imagine/#comment-1307 Mansoor Kid, you are too young for all these relationships. Being cheated is much better than being used. She divorced me, I cant go back and change but I spend so much money and that was certainly in my hand. At the end, you measure what you gain and you lose. To date, I have a loan of more than 50 Lacs Pakisatni Rs. And when I look around then I see I could easily find love to replace but no one would give me 50 Lacs. Don't you agree ?? Love is totally replacable because it is just "more" acquiattance + used to factor. Go out, f*ck some other gal and in two nights, you would move on. When I was in Karachi, Carleton hotel had very good gals. Check it out Mansoor Kid, you are too young for all these relationships. Being cheated is much better than being used. She divorced me, I cant go back and change but I spend so much money and that was certainly in my hand. At the end, you measure what you gain and you lose. To date, I have a loan of more than 50 Lacs Pakisatni Rs. And when I look around then I see I could easily find love to replace but no one would give me 50 Lacs. Don’t you agree ?? Love is totally replacable because it is just “more” acquiattance + used to factor. Go out, f*ck some other gal and in two nights, you would move on. When I was in Karachi, Carleton hotel had very good gals. Check it out

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