the perfect match
Posted by mansoor on 14 Feb 2007 | Tagged as: heart 2 heart
is someone who needs to be pampered with someone who needs to pamper.
How much would you agree with that? Personally, i believe that maybe that was the reason many relationships of the past survived the test of time, and why many relationships now dont.
Womens lib, feminism, egoistic attitudes and political correctness have all but destroyed the delicate balance between pampering your loved one and being pampered. To a lot of people, even acknowledging this fact hints weakness, when in-fact, it is the dismissal of the fact itself which i believe to be the biggest weakness of them all.
How many ‘puppy love’ stories have you seen around you, in the movies or read in books where gifts, sweet nothings and outrageous displays of emotion have joined two people together in a stronger that love itself? Before you dismiss it as fiction or luck, think about it. It is the basic need, the ultimate want of the human spirit, yet in the name of independent thinking, we let go of it and much rather prefer feeling lonely…..
To all feminists i say, you wield the ultimate power! In the words of Xill-e-Ilahi
“the almighty has yet to create a female form without the capability to bewitch males with her eye”
it is the ultimate happiness as long as it lasts
then it turns sour n theres nothing worst !
this Vday, i refuse to cry, to sing sad songs or to blog abt it. let the world dance, n i’ll tap my toes to the music
chalo chalo now cheer up n ye falsafa shalsafa side mei karo plzzzzzzzzzzz 
and while that leaves me pretty much hanging out like one of those -female-objectifying types who watche the miss universe pageant as if it were a religious pilgrimage or something and not the almost-female-supremacist and very definitely feminist that i am - i stand by it. i’m a sucker for beauty.
so sue me.
ud: cheered up :p falsafa shalsafa tou part hai na apna.. phir kaise chordoon?
xill: beauty is appreciable.. moreso if its a woman
i stand by you too man! no suein from me
huh!! i wrote a comment here yesterday which hasnt shown up.
wahh jee wahhh….men admitting their weaknesses so proudly and complementing each other..kyaaaa baat hai!
jokes aside, nice piece of work their monsoon. very true - it’s all about ego - both ways…sigh…’sad, sad tale of many a human-hearts’
i for one get really freaked out the moment i suspect any form of pampering - sp from a guy!
and im def not the type to do all that pampering either! sorry!
I think I agree. Men should pamper women. It makes relationships fun and far more easy to handle.
Men should pamper AND respect women. Just pampering with the thought process of “Uff, this feeble woman” is not very attractive.