Comments on: love is overrated http://wordofmansoor.com/2008/05/25/love-is-overrated/ and so it shall be written.. and so it shall be done... Thu, 20 Nov 2008 17:30:29 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: tanzilla http://wordofmansoor.com/2008/05/25/love-is-overrated/#comment-86924 tanzilla Mon, 09 Jun 2008 04:22:29 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/?p=251#comment-86924 Yups, interesting. i have asked the same question myself many times, does love Enff makes up for everything else.....? the heart has said onething, but the experience(s) have said otherwise...sighhhh..... Yups, interesting. i have asked the same question myself many times, does love Enff makes up for everything else…..? the heart has said onething, but the experience(s) have said otherwise…sighhhh…..

]]> By: mansoor http://wordofmansoor.com/2008/05/25/love-is-overrated/#comment-85047 mansoor Sat, 07 Jun 2008 09:59:56 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/?p=251#comment-85047 tanzilla: reminds me of something which i read just today... http://ljmo103.multiply.com/journal/item/2/Mind_Contradicts_the_Heart_on_Love read it, you might like it. tanzilla: reminds me of something which i read just today…

http://ljmo103.multiply.com/journal/item/2/Mind_Contradicts_the_Heart_on_Love

read it, you might like it.

]]> By: tanzilla http://wordofmansoor.com/2008/05/25/love-is-overrated/#comment-84030 tanzilla Fri, 06 Jun 2008 10:26:18 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/?p=251#comment-84030 The loss of love is bascially the loss of trust and patience, where two people, who used to love each other or atleast were so much into eah other, are not able to communicate anymore. Maybe, her hurt, at this point in time, is too monumental. but somehow, it seems to me that at some point in time, you would communicate. good advice here about coping up, especially from Obi Wan and UTP. Though we can fall in love several times, the getting over part always hurts...your body and mind search for devise newer ways to cope with the loss.... The loss of love is bascially the loss of trust and patience, where two people, who used to love each other or atleast were so much into eah other, are not able to communicate anymore. Maybe, her hurt, at this point in time, is too monumental. but somehow, it seems to me that at some point in time, you would communicate.

good advice here about coping up, especially from Obi Wan and UTP. Though we can fall in love several times, the getting over part always hurts…your body and mind search for devise newer ways to cope with the loss….

]]> By: mansoor http://wordofmansoor.com/2008/05/25/love-is-overrated/#comment-80769 mansoor Tue, 03 Jun 2008 06:25:51 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/?p=251#comment-80769 mystique: whatever works for you ;) mystique: whatever works for you ;)

]]> By: mystique http://wordofmansoor.com/2008/05/25/love-is-overrated/#comment-80759 mystique Tue, 03 Jun 2008 06:10:14 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/?p=251#comment-80759 @ obi... hawwwwww....but i guess ur right there :P mansoor... u are adamant to drill that into my head arent u! ;) @ obi…
hawwwwww….but i guess ur right there :P

mansoor…
u are adamant to drill that into my head arent u! ;)

]]> By: mansoor http://wordofmansoor.com/2008/05/25/love-is-overrated/#comment-80720 mansoor Tue, 03 Jun 2008 05:06:45 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/?p=251#comment-80720 obi: married @ 20!! yup, that's young, even for us! and in my extended families, guys get married quite young! the youngest in my family to get married was at 22. he's a year younger and has a beautiful daughter now. good call about sex vs love making... obi: married @ 20!! yup, that’s young, even for us! and in my extended families, guys get married quite young! the youngest in my family to get married was at 22. he’s a year younger and has a beautiful daughter now.

good call about sex vs love making…

]]> By: Obi Wan Kenobi http://wordofmansoor.com/2008/05/25/love-is-overrated/#comment-80648 Obi Wan Kenobi Tue, 03 Jun 2008 02:44:38 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/?p=251#comment-80648 Mansoor, I divorced at 26, married at 20 :-) .... and now I am 29.5 and don't want to marry before 32 if ever I get marry. Sex is over rated but love making is not. Mansoor, I divorced at 26, married at 20 :-) …. and now I am 29.5 and don’t want to marry before 32 if ever I get marry. Sex is over rated but love making is not.

]]> By: mansoor http://wordofmansoor.com/2008/05/25/love-is-overrated/#comment-80019 mansoor Mon, 02 Jun 2008 12:26:37 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/?p=251#comment-80019 obi: thanks man.. yea, i guess its no use dragging it out. uumm.. 26 is young to marry? even i am 26 at this point :) ayesha: no worries, its not something i'm advertising much.. thanks for your comments umarah: i will :) thanks! sid: you had an engagement broken up too? sweety.. having a relationship breakup and having an engagement breakup are two seperate things... anyway, you are right, family can really help! :) mystique: just like guys aren't the only ones who can have sex for fun ;) girls aren't the only ones allowed to 'express their feelings' :D (p.s. sex is fun!! but only if done right ;)). obi: thanks man.. yea, i guess its no use dragging it out. uumm.. 26 is young to marry? even i am 26 at this point :)

ayesha: no worries, its not something i’m advertising much.. thanks for your comments

umarah: i will :) thanks!

sid: you had an engagement broken up too? sweety.. having a relationship breakup and having an engagement breakup are two seperate things… anyway, you are right, family can really help! :)

mystique: just like guys aren’t the only ones who can have sex for fun ;) girls aren’t the only ones allowed to ‘express their feelings’ :D (p.s. sex is fun!! but only if done right ;)).

]]> By: mystique http://wordofmansoor.com/2008/05/25/love-is-overrated/#comment-79900 mystique Mon, 02 Jun 2008 09:11:44 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/?p=251#comment-79900 p.s.. update blogroll pls :) p.s..
update blogroll pls :)

]]> By: mystique http://wordofmansoor.com/2008/05/25/love-is-overrated/#comment-79898 mystique Mon, 02 Jun 2008 09:10:43 +0000 http://wordofmansoor.com/?p=251#comment-79898 its good to see a guy writing all that for a change..i mean...relationship breakdowns are normally blatantly expressed by us gals..khair...where do u want me to start with my expert inspite on the topic? :) i know its an endless, beaten to death discussion...all this abt luv and crap. andu knwo what...all my married fireds swear even sex is over rated! :P *yeah..go one smile..* all i can say dear friend is......it will hurt - and it will hurt bad. and fact of the matter is, it doesnt get better, u just have to get used to it till it becomes routine. been there, done that, rmr?! sigh...i can go on and on with this...but i seriously need to catch up on the others as well. am sure u shall be bringing this topic up again. i agree to most of the above - like it takes a few breakups to find THE one...and yes, u need to go out there and live *shud be telling myself that too*. but as far as moving on is concerned....u will find a way that suits u best. tc! its good to see a guy writing all that for a change..i mean…relationship breakdowns are normally blatantly expressed by us gals..khair…where do u want me to start with my expert inspite on the topic? :)

i know its an endless, beaten to death discussion…all this abt luv and crap. andu knwo what…all my married fireds swear even sex is over rated! :P *yeah..go one smile..*

all i can say dear friend is……it will hurt - and it will hurt bad. and fact of the matter is, it doesnt get better, u just have to get used to it till it becomes routine. been there, done that, rmr?!

sigh…i can go on and on with this…but i seriously need to catch up on the others as well. am sure u shall be bringing this topic up again.

i agree to most of the above - like it takes a few breakups to find THE one…and yes, u need to go out there and live *shud be telling myself that too*. but as far as moving on is concerned….u will find a way that suits u best. tc!

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